A young man with glasses, dressed in a black polo shirt and gray pants, sitting on a wooden chair in a living room. In the background, there is a dark wood bookshelf with framed photos and books, a round mirror on the wall, and a framed picture on a side table. He is smiling gently and looking at the camera.

Meet Luke

A dad obsessed with safe money.

My focus is on helping families protect what matters most and achieve major financial milestones with confidence and minimal stress. I spent five years as an advisor in Newport Beach with Capstone Partners, a privately owned financial planning firm of MassMutual, a top 10 broker-dealer., and now run an independent, referral-based practice. That means I don’t answer to a bank, insurance company, or corporate sales quota—I succeed only when my clients do.

My role is to guide families in insurance and “safe money” strategies. When clients face more complex planning—estate, tax, legal or investment questions—I work closely with attorneys, CPAs, CFP®s, RICPs, and business exit specialists who are ready to answer my call immediately. My clients benefit from this integrated approach, where I can coordinate complex planning in real time.

Giving back matters to me. I serve on the advisory board of the Salvation Army in my hometown, participate in local philanthropic efforts with my church, and enjoy helping clients align their money with the legacy they want to leave.

When I’m not advising families, I spend time with my wife and son, experiment in the garden, and try—usually unsuccessfully—to keep up with the gymnastics skills I had in my youth.

The @thesafemoneydad YouTube channel is my way of taking advice I’ve seen given to “ultra-high net worth families” and making it accessible to everyone… Because I can.

More Safety. Less Stress.

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Gymnast by day, aspiring doctor by night:  that was me growing up.
At 17, I was recruited as an acrobat for a faith-based show choir, The New America Singers. Their mission: bring hope to areas plagued by poverty, high suicide rates, and other struggles.  
With two dozen young adults, I traveled for months across Asia (China, Philippines, Hong Kong). It was grueling—4 a.m. wakeups, 10+ shows a day, and working well into the night was normal for us.
As you can imagine, many of the young women struggled under the pressure… except one. She was the epitome of resilience, focused, and yes, ridiculously beautiful. After the trip, we started dating and attended UC Irvine together as pre-med students.
During that time, I was tempted to pursue a MD/PhD and double down on becoming a physician scientist. When my peers were cramming for tests at 6am, I was riding my scooter two miles to my lab to run wound healing experiments on dozens of mice. That work eventually led to a publication in the Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery journal on tissue engineering. I also participated in stem cell research, fat grafting applications, but I digress.
The experience that changed everything came in my second year working as an EMT in Laguna Beach, rotating through the ICU and ER. I saw families in crisis—the panic of young wives watching their husbands be wheeled into the trauma bay, the fear of parents wondering how they’d pay the bills if the worst happened. Those moments hit me hard. It wasn’t just the medicine that mattered; it was the financial and emotional fragility families face when life suddenly changes. 

After seeing one too many husbands pass away with young children, I started researching about life insurance. I realized that many of the hardships I witnessed growing up—my first-grade classmate dying of Leukemia, my dad losing key employees to cancer, family friends struggling financially—could have been mitigated if they had met the right advisor at the right time. That’s when I knew I wanted to become that advisor.
I pivoted from medicine to building a career focused on helping families prepare for life’s uncertainties, bringing the discipline of a physician and the heart of a pastor to financial guidance. That mission now drives everything I do.
And, while many young wives would feel disappointed the soon-to-be doctor they just married was going to go 100% commission and build a business from nothing… Gabriela proved her resilience again and gave me a level of support I didn’t deserve.
After three years of marriage, we welcomed our son, Ben, to this awesome planet we call home.
Will he be a philosopher? 
A physician-scientist? 
A gymnast like his dad? 
Time will tell. But this I do know: My wife, Gabriela, and my son, Ben, are my compound interest. 
They are my ROI. 
Not my brokerage account.

A Look Into My Life

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Two graduates, a woman and a man, in caps and gowns with blue stoles, standing outdoors in front of a bush with pink flowers, smiling and posing for a photo.

Majored in Biology.
Minored in ‘How to Marry This Girl.’

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My favorite event: high bar.

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Factory in China

Sweaty aftermath from delivering 10,000+ lbs. of baby formula up countless stairs.

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Back handsprings anyone?

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Hong Kong Elementary School

Building memories beats building spreadsheets.

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